We went to see Pixar's latest movie yesterday- "Up" in 3-D! Just before the movie, Chad came home from the grocery store and surprised me with.... (look at photo below).
I just love helium filled balloons. Not those shiny mylar ones though, which are not really balloons to me. And balloons without the floating factor are nice but don't hold my interest.
My earliest memory is, like for many, I suspect, when I lost one as it floated out of my 5 year-old hands and into the blue blue skies. I remember chasing after it but it was quickly blown away by the wind. That first experience did not sour my feelings about floating balloons though. I love them and hope someday I can go up in one of those hot-air balloons, just like the old Mr. Carl Fredrerickson in his house with his thousands of helium filled balloons (watch movie below).
That night, Chad tied my balloons to my bedside table. They were happily floating high above. Then I woke up in the middle of the night and saw them still floating but barely so and when I woke up, they were looking just a little bit sad on the floor. I guess their short floating life is part of what makes the balloons so special. I find myself ignoring the most beautiful silk flowers but appreciating fresh flowers before they fade away-seizing the moments to enjoy them while they last. Click here for an interesting blog entry that ties the movie "Up" to Seattle's urban legend Edith Macefield.
From the USCIS website: A "green card" gives you official immigration status (Lawful Permanent Residency) in the United states.
So here's where I'm at as far as being 'legal' here in the U.S.
Chad and I went for the initial interview for my application for permanent residence last Thursday (21st May). My memory is a bit fuzzy on the questions we were asked. I think basically the questions were very much like the ones I had for the interview for the Fiance (K1) Visa in August last year: How did you meet? How did the relationship progress? ...and so on. I was also asked if I was already working. In fact, I have not yet been able to work because I am still missing the Employment Authorization Document (EAD) and when I informed the interviewer about this, she checked on my application on her computer, she found that I've been APPROVED for the EAD. Since FEBRUARY!!!
She then asked us to check at the information counter because we never did receive the document in our mail. The interview continued and we showed her a bunch of evidence to show that we have a bona fide marriage.
Just when I thought everything was going smoothly with the interview, she asks about my middle name and why I had dropped it and indicated that this might be a problem when or if I wanted to apply for naturalization (US citizenship) down the road. To make a long story short, we had to decide on the spot to change my name on the green card to avoid having to legally change my name on my Malaysian passport. This means, however, that I will have to backtrack and have my name changed on at least 3 documents here in the US-social security card, state ID card and my bank accounts, after spending considerable time to get those documents in the first place.
As for the outcome of the interview, we were told that the decision of whether I've been approved or not will come after the 'final review'. If everything goes the way it's supposed to, the application should be approved and we should expect something in the mail within a month.
Which brings us back to the question-What has happened to that EAD? As suggested, Chad and I went to the information counter expecting to get answers. We did not get any answers but were told we needed to arrange an appointment and to do so we had to get to such and such website. Harrummph!!
We get home, I get on the computer, arrange an appointment, the earliest being a week away (which was last Thursday, 28th May), we go back to the USCIS Seattle Field Office in Tukwilla, pay ANOTHER $6 for parking, ask the question, the guy at the counter makes a phonecall and finds out yes, I've been approved, yes, since February but...
We find out my Biometrics (which I did in February) was only linked to my I-485 (Immigration speak for my green card/PR application) and not my I-765 (Immigration speak for my EAD application). The Biometrics data should have been linked to both. So they linked my Biometrics up to my I-765 and the guy at the booth said he was 99% sure, though he would not stake his life on it (his words) that we will be getting my EAD in 10-14 days. We are counting...
So what has this done about my confidence level about receiving that green card in good time, without any problems? I can only say I HOPE everything will go smoothly. I need to have everything I require to be 'legal' here to really rest easy and go on the the next phase in making Seattle my home.
I'm almost always feeling to warm or too cold. Chad teases me about the very narrow range of temperature I consider comfortable.
The temperature in Seattle this afternoon happens to fall within this narrow optimal range. The sun was shining. Not much of a breeze. On my walk to Wallingford, I could wear what Chad calls my "Singapore clothes"- short pants and a cotton blouse. I found that being in the shade was just as comfortable as being in the sun.
There were many people about, sitting outside, enjoying the warm day. Many were queueing up for ice-cream at Molly Moon's. The flavour which caught my eye- Pormegranate Curry Sorbet! I could kick myself for not joining in that queue today. I'm not making that same mistake tomorrow! Warm sunny day and Pomegranate curry sorbet- here I come!
My parents' were born and grew up in Malacca and I was born there too, though spent most of my childhood and teen years in Batu Pahat. They have since relocated back to Malacca. In our April trip, Chad and I visited Malacca whenenever we had a chance.
The slideshow below is dedicated to both my Mom and Dad, Albert and Philomena.
The audio soundtrack of this slideshow is dedicated to my mom and mothers everywhere.
To best enjoy the following slideshow, please view in HQ for best quality and mute/pause the music on my playlist player found on the right hand side of this page. Do turn down the volume if the audio gets too loud.
This is my mom and dad's one and only wedding picture (my mom showed it to us when we were at their place in Melaka). I remember this young woman from my early childhood. And I remember her working hard for her family.
In this picture (40 years later), you can see my mom continue her work for her family- the spices that she washed, cleaned and prepared just so that I could have a taste of home in Seattle.
Since Malaysia will be celebrating Mothers' Day 15 hours ahead of Seattle, I'll write this now: "Happy Mothers' Day, Mom! Thanks for all you've done and still do for us"
The heart of a home is a mother Whose love is warm and true, And home has always been "sweet home" With a wonderful mother like you!
Dad, your speech/poem warmed our hearts (I'm still waiting for the copy to keep for posterity).
Mom, the cake was delicious. Thank you, Aunty Fidelis for making it and you for arranging it all. The cake was transported all the way from Malacca, Malaysia and stayed intact and beautiful.
Thank You, Scott
Scott, Chad's brother was also his Best Man and witness to our Sacrament of Matrimony. Thanks for coming such a long way to celebrate the day with us. We hope you had a good time and that this will be the first of more visits.
Thank You, Florence and Deepak
When I firstarrived, Florence and Deepak put me up for more than 2 weeks in their home. It was easy to see which room was mine when I was there. Florence and Deepak are really what I call neat freaks while I am ruled by chaos. Thanks for your hospitality and putting up with my untidiness.
Florence, thanks for all your help and advice as my Matron of Honour. Thanks for also being a witness to our marriage. After looking for an outfit for a long time, I have to say this one you found (probably 2 -3 days before the wedding) is perfect. You look beautiful.
Thank You, Nancy
Nancy, you were a wonderful bridesmaid. Thanks for lending me your listening ear, helping me with the florist, helping my mom with her make-up and finding such a perfect dress. Perfect fit, perfect dress and you looked so beautiful.
Since you caught the bouquet at the toss, keep me posted on the outcome!
Thank You, Marcus and Marcus
Marcus, my brother, sang the 'Road that never ends' while Marcus, my former colleague played the guitar, while we signed the church wedding register.
Thank you for making the ceremony even more special, you two.
Here are the lyrics to the song.
The Road That Never Ends
-sung by Marcus De Silva accompanied by Marcus Chan on guitar
Here we are
In this holy place together
Bearing witness as the two of you become man and wife
On this day
As you join in heart and spirit
You begin another chapter in the book of life
Chorus:
Love… is the circle that surrounds you
You can find it on the faces of your family & friends
Love…let it wrap its arms around you
And guide you on your journey down the road that never ends
There’s a song in your heart
You can hear it if you listen
As it whispers through the branches
high above the family tree
And as time
Lay it’s melody upon you
You can rest assured in knowing that you’re right where you should be [Chorus]
Thank You, Vernon, Anna, Erica and Aiden
Thank you all for coming all the way from Kuala Lumpur to celebrate the day. Vernon drove both Chad and I to Mallacca and back on the weekends. That made it so much easier for us to visit my mom and dad. Thank-you so much for that.
My brother Vernon, his wife Anna, and Aiden
Erica saying hello
Thank You, Aunty Luciana, Pio, Whitney, Megan and Eddie
Pio, thanks for helping us get the champagne and wine. Thank you all for the help we so needed. We truly appreciate it.
My cousin Eddie (also my godson), Whitney (Pio's wife), my cousin Pio and brother Marcus.
My Aunt Luciana helping out as Chad pops the champagne
Thank You, Chee Mun and Heiny
We invadedChee Mun's home for over two weeks. Chad, Scott and I stayed at Chee Mun's on a fair bit of ou stay in Singapore. Thank you, Chee Mun! Heiny, thanks for sharing Chee Mun on his birthday (also Apr 18th). I found a way to always remember your birthday, Chee Mun!
Thank You, Sharlene
Sharlene, thanks for being a part of the ceremony. You did it so well.
Thank You, Friends from SAJC
Thank you all for your help. Carol for volunteering your help with the flowers and transport. Meixiu and Charis for helping with the cupcakes. All of you who helped with the guest table, gifts and ushering. You helped everthing go smoothly and knowing you were there helped keep me sane!
Joanne, Charissa,Carol, Sharon, me, Meixiu (front), Oon Hui, Charis, Marcus
Here you see Geraldine and her son (Faizah not in picture)
Thank You, All Our Guests
Our relatives and friends and students, thank you for your love, support and being present to share our joy and celebrate the day with us.
(all photos on this post taken by Christopher Lim
www.chrisppics.com)
